Well i had it all planned.. i would have the credit card paid off in less then 6 months and then could concentrate on paying off the line of credit. I could potentially would have been debt free in less then 2 years.. less if we worked hard at it.
But i of course made the mistake of showing the BF the plan.. which included taking some money off the line of credit (which has a lower interest rate) and using that money to pay off some of the credit card.. what does he see.. money free on the credit card and in the space of 2 weeks racked up and maxed out the credit again.. all on himself (well him and his friends).
The little things over a period of time added up and now we are more in the hole then ever.. not happy.. in fact i am PISSED.. i mean just because there is money on the card doesn't give him the right to use it. Especially when we, well i, am trying to pay it off.
This was the cause of our fight the other day (and my post, why do i bother)... he wanted to show off to his friends leaving the bank account to pay for it. I hate that dam card. He doesn't care about what's important to me. I work so hard on the budget trying to pay things off and he sees it as play time. What would happy if i took that money off and spent it on crap. And what makes this worse is that is not the first time he has done
So dam frustrating.. arggggg
Time to think of plan B.. because regardless i will