When the BF gets drunk.. doesn't get his own way and doesn't have access to the money (which I put in a separate account) he gets all pissy at me.. then he rants to his friends and then they call me things like "money bitch" and "money hoarder" I think I even heard "reverse gold digger" which basically means I am not with my BF because he has money but I will take all his money anyway and then spending on myself.. Which is completely not true.. complete BS.. we have a set budget and I am keeping to it. I am tired of defending myself against people like his dumb ass friends who would rather spend all their money drinking every weekend when I want to plan for our future like debt payments, travel and family.. SCREW THEM.. and I know it starts off when the BF gets upset with me for not bowing to his every wim and giving him what he wants when he wants..
Frankly I am getting sick of it.. If the BF wants to spend all his money on drinking, partying and stupid crap like that he is welcome to. Me.. I have a goal of being debt free and travelling.. and I refuse to carry his load.. enough is enough!!!
Ok sorry for the rant but I had to get that out..